45 Ways to MOVE ON!!!

45 Ways To Move On :)

No reasons. No explanations. Just like that. It just ends. Period.

I've been there. You've been there. We've all been there.

It doesn't matter if you're a naive high school or college student, a successful businessman, a young entrepreneur, a musician, a writer or a professional trying to climb the ladder of your chosen field. Just the same. You'll feel that special sort of pain reserved for relationship losers.

Below are the 45 ways to move on. These are excerpts from the 77 ways to move on by Faye Valencia.

1. Pretend it didn't happen.

2. Act like it doesn't matter.

3. Take time to digest the bad news.

4. Stay hydrated.

5. Take a temporary vow of silence.

6. Be vague.

7. Pick a break up anthem.

8. Hide and cry.

9. Take a long bath.

10. Engage in small talks.

11. Eat some chocolate.

12. Do some chores.

13. Practice good grooming.

14. Hug someone or ask someone to hug you.

"A hug is like a bandage to a hurting wound. "

15. Bet on the lotto.

16. Sleep on it.

17. Scream.

"Screaming is bad for the voice, but is good for the heart. "

18. Break something.

19. Look in the mirror.

20.Eat anti-depression fruits.

"Good food is wise medicine. "

21. Disconnect from the online world.

22. Go on a no-strings-attached date.

23. Watch a movie alone.

24. Go on a road trip.

25. Learn martial arts.

26. Fine yourself for thoughts about your ex.

27. Call a radio station.

28. Take it out on the karaoke.

"The best remedy for a short temper is a long walk. "

Leave your sadness behind.

Walking takes you outside where you can easily see that the world has not stopped simply because somebody broke your heart.

Acknowledge the pain you are feeling but don't make a big deal out of it.

You have no right to force everyone to be miserable with you.

30. Be kind to a random stranger.

"Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love. "

31. Make a list of your ex's annoying habits.

"Some people don't realize what they have until it's gone. But that doesn't always mean that they are supposed to get it back. "

32. Fall in love with someone else.

33. Do the purge.

"Sometimes you have to burn a few bridges to keep the crazies from following you. "

34. Write a tell all account of what happened.

"Writing is easy. All you have to do is sit staring at a blank sheet of paper until drops of blood form on your forehead.

35. Set up a break up blog.

36. Flaunt your happy life.

37. Confront your ex.

38. Forgive your ex.

I think it's important to have closure in any relationship that ends. You should always have a sense of clarity at the end and know why it began and why it ended. You need that in order to move on cleanly into your next phase.

Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life.